Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009 | Author: Liver
Annie asked:
I handle stress badly. I get sick sometimes: nauseous, light-headed, and like my throat is closing in. I get headaches a lot. My doctor said stress is part of it. My mom has made phone calls to get me a psychologist, we haven’t heard back yet. I know it’s good, but I think when it’s time to go, I’ll get myself all worked up over it and not want to go. Yesterday when I was crying, my mom said that I place too high of standards on myself. I’m recognizing that but I don’t know how to lower my standards. I know I can’t be perfect but I think I need to be closer to it. When I do something wrong or even get mad at someone, often I end up crying. I’m slacking off in school and my past straight A’s are B’s and a C. I’ve been doing badly on my test and copying homework. It feels like with most things, I know what is going to happen if I don’t act, but I still do nothing and end up freaking out when I can’t avoid the situation. I have some great friends, but I don’t think I fit in with them. They are the overachievers of the school; I’m a shy arty emotional kid, it’s like we don’t see the world the same way; its hard to communicate how I feel to them. I was depressed and self-harmed, I haven’t done that in a while; I think about it sometimes.
Sometimes I can’t even figure out what is stressing me out so much, other than life in general. Like now, I’m kind of on edge fearing I won’t get many answers. But I think that’s stupid too. I so want to stop worrying and stressing out over stupid little things all the time. I hate it.
Isabella
I handle stress badly. I get sick sometimes: nauseous, light-headed, and like my throat is closing in. I get headaches a lot. My doctor said stress is part of it. My mom has made phone calls to get me a psychologist, we haven’t heard back yet. I know it’s good, but I think when it’s time to go, I’ll get myself all worked up over it and not want to go. Yesterday when I was crying, my mom said that I place too high of standards on myself. I’m recognizing that but I don’t know how to lower my standards. I know I can’t be perfect but I think I need to be closer to it. When I do something wrong or even get mad at someone, often I end up crying. I’m slacking off in school and my past straight A’s are B’s and a C. I’ve been doing badly on my test and copying homework. It feels like with most things, I know what is going to happen if I don’t act, but I still do nothing and end up freaking out when I can’t avoid the situation. I have some great friends, but I don’t think I fit in with them. They are the overachievers of the school; I’m a shy arty emotional kid, it’s like we don’t see the world the same way; its hard to communicate how I feel to them. I was depressed and self-harmed, I haven’t done that in a while; I think about it sometimes.
Sometimes I can’t even figure out what is stressing me out so much, other than life in general. Like now, I’m kind of on edge fearing I won’t get many answers. But I think that’s stupid too. I so want to stop worrying and stressing out over stupid little things all the time. I hate it.
Isabella
Category: Coping with Modern Life
Saturday, 25. April 2009
The way it will pass with anxiety sometimes too but people and if means above the way it up while you must still be in high school we have too but.
Sunday, 26. April 2009
have you considered that it might be your diet ? you dont have to be over weight when eating wrong,like too much sugar or caffeine .
Monday, 27. April 2009
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