cassidyhustle95 asked:


dat to day stress goes with it too i just couldnt fit it…

Olivia

Marvin G asked:


Will he crave medication when he grows up to the extent of using street drugs? I certainly hope not. If I choose to take him off medications, will his system rebel and demand sedation or are there other effects that may occur upon ceasing treatment? Wean, cold-turkey, or substitute?

Carlos

Alisha G asked:


I’m a mother of 3 girls.I’m not married and their fathers don’t help us any way.The oldest is 10(Adeline),the medium is 5(Jane) and the youngest is 6 months(Melanie).I work all day,so Adeline cares of the other while I’m at work.When Adeline is at school(just a few hours) Jane cares of Melanie.Till now there haven’t been any problems.I want the kids to become self-confident and to believe in themselves,so they could manage to cope with real life.That’s why I let them to take the decisions of their problems and leave them alone at home,to become responsible.If I didn’t do it,how could they learn how to cope with life when they grow up and have their children?Anyway I want to ask you are there any other ways to make them more responsible(they are responsible enough,but I want them to have other chances to train their responsibility and confidence).Adeline cooks,cleans the house,cares of the baby and Jane…she knows lots of things and so she learns Jane to do them.Help me with more ideas

Sean

bettyboop081805 asked:


just so you all know it is a guy that sings this song.

Cooper

Evilish13 asked:


Something really just bothers your or irritates you emotionally in one way or another, HOWEVER, you know it shouldnt or it really isnt that big of a deal. How do you deal with it and try to let it go?

Brandon

∫e mousquetaire XVI asked:


i feel completely hopeless and lost- like theres no way back, like im lost….ive left it too late…my goals in life are all unachievable….i have alot of problems……and here they are…prepare, its a long list :

i have prematurely aged at the 3o due to a hard life and stress.

i have bpd and ptsd- i feel i look a physical wreck, im bald, my skin looks colorless, dull, pasty, open pores…rough skin, dark deep lines under my eyes stretching to my cheek bones…i feel my eyes look like dark caverns.

my other physical imperfections are: i have 2 missing teeth, at the front, bottom row due to an accident years ago..

a crooked little finger that droops over due to an injury months ago…doesnt straiten even with a splint put on for weeks.

cracked skin, tears in the skin on the head of my penis that im waiting to see a dermatologist about…….openings in the skin that are pronounced all over the head.

torn ankle ligaments, it clicks when i move it, i have to be careful how i walk on it because i can twist it easy and go sprawling over on it– i will need surgery on it.

whilst having my ankle examined i was told i was flat footed, i was given insoles.

but whats really concerning me is my physical appearence, my face, the aging, dark lines, facial skin etc.
my facial skin looks colorless, dull, pasty, without a glow or vibrancy.

what do i do ?

How do i cope with the fact ive prematurely aged at 30 years old due to a hard life and stress ?
im a bpd and ptsd sufferer, iam 30 years old and have had a very rough life.
i have never built up any relationships in life with either male or female because of the trauma and mental health problems i sustained.

growing up and throughout my life i have been bullied severley….ive suffered assaults, muggings…time in a psyche hospital…survived alot of horrible thangs..

ive never been employed, never had qualifications….and have been on welfare benifit the majority of my life.

i suffer with extreme low self worth but iam also very vain in my mind.

i have physical imperfections that get me down, ive aged prematurley…dark lines under my eyes….im bald….i have 2 missing teeth, front, bottom row…need implants, which are expensive.
i have physical worries im having investigated at the moment…aching joints, frequent urination.
recentley ive made contact with a pale, milk bottle white, cute chubby redhead from kansas usa…..i messaged her from myspace and we exchanged messages and seemed to hit it off….since then…ive added her to msn…and ive been emailing her for a couple of months…..but theres some things shes doesnt know about me….and she hasnt seen pictures of me..
up to now ive done well…ive been polite, respectful….sent her nice upbeat emails.

she seems to be keen and be showing alot of interest…even said when am i going over to the states so she can ‘ ravish me ‘…..shes instant messaged me recentley and told me she cant wait to talk to me…..i told her in the last email that i found her extremely attractive, like expressing i liked her…so clearly shes been receptive to my advance..
the problem is im scared if she saw me, if she found out the truth of what im like, saw my physical imperfections…learned about all im dealing with and all my ‘lifes ‘ complications..learned i was really very unconfident….very un self assured, very insecure…had a big low self esteem…(where i struggle to even intitiate and maintain a conversation in any setting )……learned i was clingy and needy…that if she learned all this :- shed reject me.
and im worried because ive started to like her, and so far my emails have been successful…but i sense its getting to the part now where she would like to ‘ instant chat ‘ and maybe see my photos…then i fear i might find out she will reject me for who i really am and my appearence..
on a side note, i live in a small apartment, own no possessions, im waiting for therapy and feel totally worthless and hopeless because i realize i have nothing to offer her.

i look nothing like my avatar…..im terrified of her rejecting me…..and that the something good that ive found wont last………will end.

ive never built up any relationships ever in life because of the problems ive had..

what can i do ?

Emily

vikki asked:


You know how scientist have predicted another Ice Age coming because of global warming? Well, pretend your in the transition from global warming, to the frigid ice age. How would you feel? How would you cope with everyday life? How would your life change? How would you adapt to these climates?

Aidan

John M asked:


I male and am too ugly to live and I hate it. My ugliness has caused me to have no friends or lovers and I am 19 the age when I should be living life to the full and loving life but instead I stay in my bedroom all day being miserable and depressed, I have been like this for 6 months but have been seeing a therapist though it isn’t helping me much. I am tall, skinny and have horrible cheekbones, my skin is horrible and I just hate being me both personally and physically. I tried exercise, i tried counseling, I tried meds, I tried behaving confident and improving my attitude but none of it works because I’m ugly. I have basically tried everything to improve myself in general but it always come back to people treating me like I am worthless. I have been bullied since I can remember, I have been undermined and thoroughly persecuted by the outside world which is why I stay at home. When I am out I cant bring myself to look people in the eye because when I do more often than not the person looking back at me has this repulsed disgusted look in there eye by the sight of me.
I appreciate all honest answers and wouldn’t say no to any ones yahoo messenger address.
Many thanks for reading

Jack

mehandas asked:


There are and there have been so many people who have managed to lead successful and meaningful lives in spite of being family less. How do they do it? What is the psychological explaination?
Or how do hermits live well?

Liam

*Lexi* asked:


we just found out when we both got picked up by her mom at school to go to the doctor. it has something to do with her chest but i am not sure. it is deadly and it is really serious…they waited too later and it is hard to save her. i do not want to lose her! i will be all alone all over again and miserable. what should i do!!! this is a serious question so no jokes or rude comments.

Luke