Simbah asked:
I fell in love with this girl when we joined school at the age of 3 (Hard to believe?)I married her in 1976 and lost her in 2007 recently. The love never diminished a bit during all these years. All these years I never left her for a moment. She would always be with me or I would always be with her. Never left her alone. The trauma is simply unbearable. I do yoga, meditation,play music, go walking and do my regular office work plus cooking (never did before she left). Spending time alone at home in her absence without her beside me is unbearable. Her thoughts are there with me all throughout the day. Feel heavy in the heart all throughout. Can anyone suggest how to cope with this unsurmountable pain and lonliness?
Mason
