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Wednesday, December 17th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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LittleMuffin asked:


The world has changed: more inventions, more technology, more knowledge, etc. However, are today’s children better able to cope with today’s life/world compared to the children from 10, 20, 30, etc. years ago?

That above is the main question, but some questions to think about when you answer me are: Are today’s children more spoiled? Are they better able to fend for themselves? Are they lazier with so much technology? Are they smarter because of technology?

Samantha

Tuesday, December 16th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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nikki asked:


On the job?

Ella
Friday, December 12th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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Gottaknow asked:


She’d been my best friend and confidente, the one who would listen without interrupting or ridiculing, my bedmate on cold nights, and the love of my life. Now that she has had to be euthanized, how can I get over the pain and emptiness in my heart? I’m too old to start with a new companion and don’t know if I could take the pain of another’s illness/death. Please give me some legitimate suggestions on how to cope with this deep hurt. Thank you!

Hayden
Thursday, December 11th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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SatAtmaKaur asked:


and start all over again in another country? Good opportunity ? Questions should I stay or should I go always come up, it’s mostly my friends I think about and how much I will miss them. Of course I will keep in touch with them by email and letters. Can you suggest any other ways to cope with this and how to get over the culture shock?

Christian
Wednesday, December 10th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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Ess T asked:


I need some words of advice with coping witha recent change in my relationship.

For 2 years my GF and I have had no friends, gone out together and done most things together.

A few months back she met 2+ new friends at uni and has been spending time with them throughout the week whilst i work - so i barley noticed the change.

Now she is on study break and misses her friends and is making lots of plans to go out with them, spending a night away from me and staying at their place or coming home late with them and then in the morning hanging out with them till mid afternoon. Ive been pretty ok with this change, i do have things to do but i started feeling a little jealous that i have a little less time with her and am becoming a second option in her life, shes putting a lot of focus developing a friendship with them (i know i shouldnt feel jealous because its great that she is having fun and spending time with friends) but it just seems weird now things have changed, i get a little… how do i put it… left out when she makes plans with them and i am never invited… i guess i would like to be invited, but they dont have male partners so its kind of akward… third wheel style…

So now she tells me next week she is going away for 4 days to a party in a different state with them.. im ok with it but i do have a little worry that im going to start to be left out and become a second option in the future….

Also, i want her to do this and im not saying i dont want her to have friends and spend nights away as its important she has friends so she doesnt feel lonely… i guess i didnt know i would feel left out when it actaully happend..

How do i deal with this change, what can i do instead? What are your experineces?

Kayla

Wednesday, December 10th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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digilook asked:


Peace and Love

Devin
Tuesday, December 09th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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sunflower asked:


I personally have lost 3 children in my life: one by death and the other 2 by separation. How do you deal with your loss?

Ian
Sunday, December 07th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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scarletdoll7 asked:


if you have a hilarious story to tell that’s actually happened to get you thru a rough/awkward/or an embarrassing/etc… patch in life, please tell me/us all about it…laughter isn’t just medicine…it’s an essential food for us to make it thru the crumbiest of days don’t you think? spill everyone…i’d say you’d make someone’s day ;-D ..we are all ears! cheers

Abigail
Sunday, December 07th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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lospichardos asked:


I am a bussy person out side of work. Well i am a mother of three with a great energetic husband. Yet at work i feel out of place and lonely. I watch and hear as others pair up and head to as I am grabbing a book or my bible to lunch. Not sure what to do. There some people i find common interest in yet feel push away from an already established friendship and i know i don’t stand a chance.

Jayden
Friday, December 05th, 2008 | Author: Liver
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ramos3000 asked:


I am 26! I spend most of my time working, reading, writing, watching movies (I am a huge movie buff of classics and contemporary films). I will soon start a new ( and finally a permanent) job with the Fed Gov. Homeland Security dept - which I busted my butt off to get. And recently I was with a fellow friend who told me out of the blue “You don’t have a life.” That wasn’t the worst of it: this guy went into detail about how I really had no friends ( mostly because I find myself around assholes like this guy and many others), how I’m a reader (which really bores him to death when I talk about classic literally stories I’m passionate about), constanly watching movies ( once again I am a huge movie buff ) and that i’m always hanging out with my family doing “family S7it” as he so calls it! It seems ludacris to ask but how do you handle a situation like this? What does “not having a life mean”? I’m recenlty jealous. He parites and sleeps around. A part of me feels like I’m missing out.

Brady